Thank God it's Friday, for reasons that Tha King does not wish to divulge, it's been a very trying week. It's over now though, and hopefully all will be merry in Tha Kingdom hence forth. When Tha King was a young lad it became painfully obvious to him that females, while the much fairer sex, tend to be the least logical. Blame it on the Estrogen. While it may seem a tad unfair to group the entire female population of the Human race in this category but if the shoe fits.... The only exception would be Tha King's mother. If she were a superhero her name would be common sense. His entire life Tha King has had to hear those dreadful words every step he took "That doesn't make any sense. No mother, what doesn't make any sense is the amount of times you say "That doesn't make any sense" In one day. Tha King's mother has nothing to do with Today's topic but he just needed to vent.
So yesterday Tha King was yapping it up on BBM like he always does when his home girl hit him up with another female sob story cause by the actions of some dude. Tha King never asked or claimed to be the Black Dr. Phil but he doesn't hesitate to drop some knowledge on someone. So this girl, I'll call her Fulton street. Fulton street was very upset because she just discovered that the young man she thought would be her next Boyfriend lied about his relationship status when they 1st met. Of course, she thought he was trying to be a G but he explained to her that he didn't feel that he and his girl had a future but he didn't wanna break it of until he was sure Fulton street was serious. She claimed this to be emotional cheating and wrote him off as a snake. Tha rarely comes to the defense of the next man but this particular situation was close to home for Tha King because he had done the same when getting to know his current girlfriend, Woodrow.
Is this really considered cheating? My situation was slightly different because my ex was away at school. It wasn't like were going on dates or anything. Tha King's reasoning is; This is merely protecting my emotional, social and physical interests. Why would I jump the gun and break up with my current girlfriend when I'm just getting to know the new one. She could very well be mentally unstable I'd be left with no pus- uhhh, no one to spend time with. Do you quit your job just because you got a job interview for a better job? No, you wait til you hired, the same rule applies here. You can call it selfish, I call it rational.
I'm sure the ladies are itching to disagree with me so I dare one of you to disprove my logical. I DARE YOU!
In fulton street's defense, doesn't she have every right to be upset? Why should she have to play side chick to someone who doesn't even really know what they want?! And if he does know what the destiny of his relationship is going to be, why doesn't he man up and cut to the chase??
ReplyDeleteOk that's like having your cake and eating it too. If you in a relationship with someone already and then go and try and holla at another person and didn't keép it 100 from the start than the other person does have a right to get mad. There are people willing to play the side person and some that won't. Its not the same as the whole job and interview thing either. U having problems wit ur significant other and decide to go talk to the next and still holding on to the other just for back up and if things don't work out with the new person you going to go back, that's wrong and also if things do work with the next u dump the other to get with the next and that's also f*cked up. Leaves ur ex like ummmm wtf. Just keep it real from the start
ReplyDeleteI agree with you, but everyone needs to be clear about what's going on. Don't lie about the shit. It's easier to deal with when your honest. I've been down that road before and I didn't stop talking to someone just because I had another guy interested, thats just dumb. What if the dude is wack as hell in bed then what?! So I preferred to let dudes know what the situation was before we even had a conversation. Now being that homeboy wasn't truthful about his, he's a b*&%h! And the chick should say that to him and go on her way. She will feel much better.
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