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DISCLAIMER: The following blog post is not referring to ALL women. Tha King knows plenty of women who are the exact opposite of this, he happens to be dating one. Do not be offended if the following applies to you. Its not Tha Kings fault. You need to get your mind right.
"Sisters hold you down, bitches hold you up. Sisters help your progress bitches will slow you up." Jay-Z
It's no secret that Tha King knows a lot of women. The majority of the people that read this blog are of the fairer sex. I work with all women and Tha Royal Family consists of mostly females. So I would venture to say I know women pretty well, if a statement like that can even be made given the complete and utter randomness that most of them exhibit. One thing that has always bothered me is when women complain that "there are no good men out there." This statement pisses me off. For starters even though Tha King is no longer "out there" I was for sometime and was a pretty good guy until I was corrupted by a bit-uhhh young woman who claimed she was looking a good guy but played him for the opposite, a loser. If women are always looking for a good dude then why are the drug-dealing, women beating, high school dropouts getting so much love? Why is it while the good dudes are busting their asses at work, school etc. The women that claim to love them a good dude are spreading their legs for the dude that stands on the corner for 12 hrs a day? That's sure to give the good dude tons of motivation to continue doing good. If behind every good man is a women then isn't it the women's fault for lack of good men? Make sense? Of course it does, Tha King said it.
"Sisters do they dirt outside of where they live, Bitches have niggas all up in ya crib."
Women's first defense is likely to be that they were done wrong by a man in the past. 100% bullshit. Are you implying that's since you were done wrong its OK for you to continue the cycle of wrong doing? So does that mean Chris Brown was justified in going WWF on Rihanna since he witnessed domestic abuse as a child? I didn't think so. You know what they say about two wrongs.
"Sisters give up tha ass, bitches give up tha ass. Sisters do it slow, bitches do it fast."
The point I'm tyring to make it is, don't complain about the quality of men unless your going to also examine the quality of the women. If your a piece of shit don't go running around justifying your piece of shit-ness by saying their aren't any good men. If your a piece of shit and you were lucky enough to trap a good man I would HOPE that you wouldn't just throw it all away being as fast ass. I've got work to do so until next time folks.
Number one: the finger pointing should stop.
ReplyDeleteIt all comes down to who is willing to take responsibility for the mess they create. We can only HOPE a person will look at their own decision making process and make better choices.
I HOPE men and women learn this before they figure it out the hard way. Sometimes you can't count on another person to do their part, because they're IRRESPONSIBLE, hateful, inconsiderate BITCHES. So each person has to take responsibility for their lot in life, rather than place their fate in the hands of others who may not give a rat's ass.
I'd like to know just when are Black Men going to take on some of the responsibility in not participating in non-nurturing relationships? The problems is that relationships always seems fall on the Black Woman's shoulders. This reiterates to me that the majority of Black Men (not all) seem to have an unconscious deep-hatred for Black Women.
ReplyDeleteAny and almost everyone's history of their past plays a part in any future relationship weather it be a big part or lesser. I know i damn near thought i was gonna be the biggest gay person out if i messed with another jerk ass, which so happened to be black men every time. I do agree that good men are hard to find for most because location does also play a role. I do live in the projects and majority of my environment is of "hoodlums" who stand outside and do foolishness. Sadly when some of those "hoodlums" show interest in use do gooder girls(yes i said us)and we fall for it(not me i know better but for others they don't). Us women do have to stick our heads out there a little more to find a good man, branch out and look for the guys who actually sit in front of classes or the guys who show up to work on time when scheduled cause men can lie they ass off in the beginning and fool us. Not everyone is as lucky as you Shawn having your girlfriend just land in your hand that night at the movies at the age of 21. Any ways im just speakin up for the unlucky folk out there im happy.
ReplyDeleteI'm a female and I loved what he had to say because he spoke a lot of truth just in a unique way.I found his delivery very amusing but the message was strong and true none the less. In my most humble opinion it all comes down to knowing your self worth and taking a look inward. If more women felt they deserved that great guy they wouldn't settle for less.We are all so busy pointing fingers that we often forget to check ourselves and make sure we are doing our part. I guess I kinda mirrored your post with my response so simply put I agree with you.
ReplyDeleteBlack Royalty has spoken lol
I have to say that this post is deep so many women complain about finding a good man yet their the one's who allow the bad ones in. People will continue to treat you bad if you allow them to. And whats up with the saying "a good man is hard to find" because it's really not, its about who you are as a person and who you feel can complete you and give you true love and happiness. I see a lot of drug dealers, drop outs, and gangsters around my way and I don't see much good coming out of them. So if you continue to step in that direction for a good man than I'm sorry to say but your not looking for a good man nor are you a good woman.
ReplyDeleteLet me fist just say,lmao, you a dang fool.
ReplyDeleteNow in regards to the post, AGREED, DAMNIT.
If as a woman I allow myself to continually align myself with effin degenerate men, then I have only one person to blame and that is ME!! Oddly enough I was about to write a similar post on my own blog about women and the decesions we make and how we always pass the buck onto the men. Someone made a statement about "when are men going to take responsibility...blah blah fucking blah..."
I'm super sick and tired of women always starting with the men, how about take some fucking personal stock in the poor decesions you make and why you make them? How about women start closing their legs and get to know just what the man may be about before you screw him and start to catch feelings. I'm by no means saying that men do not have their own share of the blame to be accountable for but if you don't do a proper self analysis then you will be stuck with Raquan's of the world.
Good men are out there, we just need to give them a chance and stop the self sabotage.
Well well well, if it isn't a man thinking he knows everything, especially women and the silly ass women who agree. tsk tsk. I happen to be a woman who has had nothing but "Good Men" and I use that term loosely because I honestly think there is no such thing. People think that just because these men don't stand on the corner and are not the true essence of the word vagabond they are good. WHATEVER. Maybe we should stop judging one another from the outside and thinking that just because he looks bad on the outside he is bad and vise versa. These bad men could be good and just end up doing the wrong shit, which is why certain women fall for them, because they can see them for who they are. Also, I believe there are a number of psychological, societal and socio-economical reasons as to why women pick the bad guys. Maybe if women in certain communities had a good strong upbringing with well mannered, good intentioned intellectual parents they would have a good foundation to look toward and mirror. I personally come from a pretty f***ed up hood in the BX but decided to attend a top notch University and was able to see that there are some good ones out there. But what about those who can't aspire to what I can, I don't blame them for seeing only the bad ones b/c that's all I saw. And YTF should women have to leave what they've known, their comfort zone to find a "Good Man"??? Why is it ALWAYS the woman's duty? Men have no responsibility? Why can't men and the parents of these men shape the f**k up and create "GOOD MEN"? You "King" are one in a million like the rest of the "Good Men" out there and I commend you and the rest and hope the Bad guys follow your lead.
ReplyDeleteThanks for the comments guys! Keep em comin.
ReplyDeleteTo J-Luv : Its not about being responsible nor is it finger pointing my love. There are plenty piece of shit men out there but I haven't dated any of them therefore I can only speak on what I know. The point I was trying to make was- If you out doing wrong don't complain when you get done wrong. Charge it to the game you chose to play.
To anonymous # 1: Stay anonymous sweetie. You'd want people to know you harbor such negative feelings towards black men. Please re-read my post, I never said BLACK men or women. You introduced race into the situation.
To anonymous#2 : Who is this Shawn whom you refer to? I am Tha King.
To anonymous #3: Thank you for your completely worthless contribution.
To Blessed , Expressions and Bablyon: You guys nailed it on the head. I'm not blaming all women. Im simply say that the energy you but out is exactly what your going to get back. Your a piece of shit? Guess who you going to attract?
Lecora before you call anyone else silly for agreeing with the Tha King post maybe you should reread your own comment.
ReplyDeleteLecora How can you say you had nothing but Good men and then turn right around and say honestly you don't think there is such thing. You are contradicting yourself either you believe good men exist in this world or you don't.
Another comment from you "People think that just because these men don't stand on the corner and are not the true essence of the word vagabond they are good" I'm sure we all have our definition of what a good man is but no one tried to go into depth and define that so you are simply making assumptions.
You said and I quote "These bad men could be good and just end up doing the wrong shit,which is why certain women fall for them, because they can see them for who they are". We are all capable of doing good and bad things and everyday we select what type of person we will be by the choices that we make. So tell me how do you tell the difference between a good man and a bad man? Do you go by his actions or his words or his intentions or just what you want to see in him. A man can claim to be a good man all day but if his actions do not mirror his words than his words are false and he is in denial.
As far as the comment about why should women leave there comfort zone.If your unwilling to leave your comfort zone to find a good man than why complain about not having a good man. That's like having a nasty sore that's infected and everyday you complain that the sore is infected and getting worse but you make no attempt to do anything about it.
As far as you leaving your environment but others not being as lucky.Sorry to burst your bubble but the only thing that makes you different then those who you speak of is you climbed out by aspiring to do better because you wanted better so you put forth effort. We all have our own personal struggles and it's harder for some then others but it's not impossible.
At some point you have to let go of all the excuses and look in the mirror. I hear people use that they came from a bad environment so that's why I act this way well what about others who came from the same environment and act differently.
At the end of the day it's about choices and if you learned the wrong things in life you accept that and correct it. Excuses get old and tired after a while.
Having intellectual parents has nothing to do with a girl becoming a good woman or a boy becoming a good man. Being an intellectual person is about intelligence and you can be intelligent on some fronts and dumb on others. I know plenty of women who had a strong upbringing with well mannered parents and they still went out and did the opposite of what they were taught to do.It goes back to choices because you can choose to follow the example of your parents, good or bad or make different choices.
Why why why are the comments as long as the blog post. DAMN get a blog or get a friend! Blessed get a hobby smh
ReplyDeleteWow Anonymous 2:19 looks like you're on your grown and petty. What is boggling my brain right now is how you came on someones blog and made irrelevant, smart ass comments that have nothing to do with the post. Which you didn't even take the time to address at all. You might want to cover up because your misery is showing. Give yourself a big hug Anonymous 2:19 it's obvious that you need one. BTW I'll get right on that hobby thing thanks for the advice : ).
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