I'm baaaaaackk! Its been a while since Tha King's last post. I was on vacation from work. For some reason its harder to sit in front of the computer when your not getting paid to do it. I've been stockpiling topics so expect a few back to back this upcoming week. Some interesting stuff went down during Tha King's time off from work.
For some strange reason, people seem to be very comfortable talking about their sex life around Tha King. Tha King doesn't mind, he's just as nosey as he is nasty so it works out well. During my last conversation with one person in particular she revealed that she had recently was involved in a 3 man tango with 2 male partners. Thankfully she kept the specifics to herself. (If your reading this B, you know I got love for ya crackhead ass) Tha King does not pass judgement on people and neither should the rest of you. Her next statement was very interesting to me. She said that now that she had tried everything sexually that she wanted to she was ready to settle down and get married.
Tha King's inital reaction was "Gee, I'm sure your husband is going to be thrilled when you tell him this story." Then I started to think. The reality is, this girl hasn't done anything that millions of other girls haven't tired. Hell, some of them might be reading this(admit it!!). At some point these women will settle down and get married, their husbands never knowing about the hoe-ish stage in their life. In the interest of fairness, the women will have no clue of their husband's slutty past as well, unless of course their husbands are like Tha King and run their mouths way more than they need to.
So, is it safe to assume that all sexually active women have a few stories that they won't be sharing with the person they hope to marry? Are you not sharing because you feel its none of his business or do you think that his opinion of you would change if he was aware of these past experiences? If so, as a women are you sure this is the right person for you? Shouldn't the person your going to spend the rest of your life with be able to accept ever part of your life? Even the icky parts?
Ok I agree that the person you chose to spend the rest of your life together with should accept all the good n not so good things about you. If they really love you than they should be able to look pass your past, that's why its called the past. But also I don't think that you should be required to tell them every little detail of your past esp if it was years before you guys were together. As long as it isn't something that is major and that is going to come back to mess things up.
ReplyDeleteVery good questions. Now being that I am a married woman already I can say that if you're not willing to share everything with your man just like you do your girls then you're not ready for anything serious. I mean don't speak every detail but sometimes it's good to have a laugh or two about something you did in the past. It actually brings good conversation, and you find out more about your man than you would have thought. But in the end you never really know when someone is lying about something or not.
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