Greetings peeps. I trust everyone had a good holiday? Now that the 4th has past Tha King has one request for everyone; Get your asses in the gym! We all know we had one too many hamburgers at all those damn cookouts. Its was the banana pudding that did Tha King in.
Yesterday while having a lunchtime talk with a friend of mine, she voiced her frustration with the amount of attention her boyfriend had been getting from other women. Tha King chuckled at his naive friend as I told her that her man had "the scent." We hear about the scent frequently on Television as something which attracts single women to men who are taken. There really is no such thing as "the scent" and the reason why taken men, and women, seem to get so much attention is very logical. So if you ever wondered why people in relationships always seem more appealing than single people here are a few of the main reasons;
1. 3rd party approval - Have you ever been shopping online and seen something that interests you but you aren't quite sold? What do you do? Read the reviews of people that have the product. Same thing applies here. If a man already has a girlfriend that means it is safe to assume she is satisfied with him. If he were crazy or abusive or a bum she wouldn't be with him. Like you ladies love to say "All the good men are taken."
2. The little secret - He has a girl! Which means he isn't gonna be calling you all crazy, showing up unannounced at your house/job etc. If your just looking for a physical relationship there is nothing better. Use him and send him home. If he objects what is he gonna do? Tell his girl?
3. Ego- Yes, women have them, and they like their egos stroked just like men do. What better ego boost to a chick then knowing your providing a man with something he isn't getting from his woman? He's also risking his relationship, and possibly his life(RIP Steve McNair), to be with you.
Its summer time.Ladies watch ya man, fellas check your girl. Cause everyone else damn sure is.
Agree? Disagree? More to add? Hit the comments.
That's funny that your topic for today's post is what it is. I had one of the biggest fights with my bf this week concerning this. His baby mother has decided to show her true colors seeing that we r serious. It's a bit different cause she's his bm but same concept applies cause she was the sweet but now she's claiming he was the best and he is a true man. "Bitch I know! That's we are together." plus other females r crowding him too. But I give him things he won't find anywhere ;). Jk. Ladies flock to his scent but he's only smelling me. LOL
ReplyDeletelets not forget, men do a pretty good job at putting out this "scent" and misleading these broads.
ReplyDeleteim really feelin this blog! i agree with all u said cuz it was all real talk, no sugar coating...ive gone after a guy who was in a relationship myself so i can relate...
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