So you meet an attractive young lady and the vibe is good. You've chilled a fun times, long phone conversations, texting til the wee hours. Pretty soon the topic that's on both your minds is going to come up....... SEX. So your having the sex talk and your liking what your hearing and then you drop the bomb. The doomsday, make or break question that you must know the answer to; How many people have you "been" with.
This question is of great importance to guys because.....well I don't really know why honestly. Of course its natural for us to want to know if the girl we're interested in moonlights as the neighborhood nutbank but do you really think the number that she gives you is the truthful number of men/women shes had sex with? Sorry young lad, nine times out of 10 shes chopping the real number in half. What number are we looking for anyway? Is there a maxium number that if the female has surpassed they are now in the realm of whoredom? Is the two hands rule in effect here?
Tha King is 23 moons old. So lets say for arguments sake I would only date young ladies ages 20-25. Lets also say that the average person in this age group lost there virginity sometime in high school, we'll say 17. Since then they've had one long relationship (a year or more) and a bunch of short ones that didn't work out. Add in those 2 one nighters freshman year in college.(blame it on the....) So lets say the average girl in this age group has slept with 2 partners every year since they started having sex. (argue my logic if you want, you'd be wrong) So that means by 25 they have been with about 16 people. So is anything above 16 unacceptable? I know one thing, if my girl said she had been with 16 dudes when we had the sex talk I would probably be single right now. Just keeping it real.
So whats the deal people? Fellas how many is to many? are there exceptions? Ladies are you mindful of your number? Does a guys number matter? Discuss.
It is important for me to know. Today it’s a pretty important conversation you should have with the person your letting sleep in your bed. One reason would be because I just want him to be open with me, that is the point really. It's just a number...I guess "a lot" is whatever bothers you. What really matters is whether a person practices safe sex and whether they get tested regularly.Then again this is just being nice again.
ReplyDeleteAh the dreadful question of how many is too many, but it is as you said is there
ReplyDeletereally a maximum for how many is to many? The answer to that would be NO it all
depends on your personal cut off line. You can't generalize nor judge a female
or a male in that matter on the amount of sexual partners they have. Its like
you said if a female loses her V card at 17 and accumulates 2 partners a year
reaching 16 partners by age 25 that's not a bad thing at all seeing how it was
done in a period of 8 years. Not to mention that young lady can be a
respectable, educated, highly independent female who happens to fail in the
trail an error process of finding real love. In my opinion if a young lady
reaches the same amount by age 18 or 19 than as a male you need to take a step
back and asset the qualities of that person before you insert same goes for
women we can't be to quick to judge a guy on his sexual encounters he just might
be the one your looking for.
I want to know how they would feel if they find out if a girl is a virgin. Would they try hit and run or what?
ReplyDeleteLMFAO damn Sha....."Tha King" this was a funny 1. I say any thing less then 2 hands aint that bad for our age range for both sexes anything more ..... i would call that hoochie-ish lol only because im not in that bracket....
ReplyDeletep.s. i dont remember what i used to sign on to your thing with so if you know a way to figure this out please inform me thanks (its natkyta by the way)
wow you really think nine times out of 10 the woman is cutting her number in half? Is this from experience or do you think women are really dishonest/maybe insecure? like that?
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