Back again people. Tha King really needs to get back on his grind as far as posting regularly. Gotta have shit to talk about though. I just need to find a balance between living life and writing about it. Before I get on with today's post I have a couple of things I must address. Ahem! 1st off. Tha King knows that a lot of people read this blog from their blackberry. Which means you may not be able to leave comments(which really does piss me off people, leave comments!) well, like any King would do, I have identified the problem and have come up with a solution. Well actually my home girl came up with it and I'm just taking credit for it. All you need to do is download the BOLT browser, its the best browser out for Blackberry so you need this in your life. You can download it at; http://boltbrowser.com/boltbb.jad
Now, on to Tha King's favorite topic, SEX. You know you like talking about it too so Tha King would appreciate it if you stop frontin. Before the freaks start getting too excited, nothing sexual is actually going to be discussed today. What Tha King wants to talk about today is why, in 2009, people are still uncomfortable talking about sex. You guys can't be serious, we're all doing it, (Except my friend from a couple posts ago.) So why not discuss it? Tha King likes to consider himself a sexual intellectual, I got that way by openly discussing sex with many different people. I was always able to go to my mother or older brother with a sexual question. Even on the rare occasions my P.O.S. father was around, he would speak openly about sex with my and my brother(maybe a little too openly, he's an old perv.)
Now I'm not saying you have to go out and put all of you business in the street, if you do that's your prerogative, but at least be able to discuss important topics. Most importantly, safe sex, STD's and things of that nature. If you can't talk about it with your friend, how are you gonna talk about it with your kids when the time comes? When a kid doesn't get this information from home he gets the information from other sources, sources which may not know shit them damn selves. The best thing in the world to have as a kid is an older sibling. Tha King has learned a great deal from his freak ass brother, although I'll never admit it to him. So if you have younger brothers or sisters, talk to them! Leave the pornos and the toys where they can find them. The worst thing in the world is for a kid to be learning from his friends, I hate being on the bus and hearing two boys talking about sex and giving each other wrong information, and it happens often. I feel like I'm crossing over into preachyville so I'll go on about my day.
Are you comfortable talking about sex with your peers? Your siblings? Parents? Children if you have them? What will you and won't you discuss?
I agree. Sex should be able to be spoken about. Why does it have to be a hush hush situation. I feel that if you can't speak about sex you have no business having sex. And if I was told that at a young age.
ReplyDeleteI would just like to say, that if you had an Iphone you could comment directly to the blog. Thank you, that is all.
ReplyDeleteWell it's easy to talk about sex for anyone especially dudes. I believe that many females don't speak about it because they are afraid that the freak inside of them will be considered whorish. Furthermore they feel that the person may take the information else where (which happens anyway). I won't release the male code conversations; however, females are trying to protect what they view as sacred. Now this doesn't apply to the actual smut girl who takes this chatter as promotion.
ReplyDeleteThe Hot 97 morning show Ciph n Rosenberg brought an article discussion of female fantasies. Of the top five fantasy was fantasy rape(role playing) and home made pornos. It was mentioned that they don't make the video because they don't want it going into the wrong hands. I find it a bit suspect when a shorty is talking about sex too openly in public. Between friends is ok because that is a personal conversation.
I would never talk to my parents about sex. Siblings cousins cool. My dad simply said never do it without a rubber when I went to college. Friends are always cool to talk too depending on the person. As far as leaving the pornos and toys out, as a child protective specialist, I don't think that is wise if u don't want your kids removed for allegations of sexual abuse. Lol
I believe I can post comments from the BB with out that download this is the test here.
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ReplyDeleteI totally agree with you King, obviously we all know I dont have a problem elaborating on some nasty shit, but on top of that when any of my three boys come to me with any questions I am gonna be so ready and able to handle that convo. I didnt have anyone to tell me anything, I just picked up on a lot thru tv, reading, and on occasion, one of my freak ass older brothers. And because of that I think that I did miss out on some things and had to learn the hard way. But I cant front, even though I am very open and talk about sex a lot, as a female I do have concerns that I will be viewed the wrong way, but I just hope that people see me for everything I am, and not just a freak. Though, I am a proud freak, lol.
ReplyDeleteMe and my brother never got the talk and we turned out just fine...i turned out just fine. If it wasn't for school then i wouldn't know the basics of it and if it wasn't for my friends and those playland booths the science of it.
ReplyDeletemy crash landing...sorry for the late arrival...sex WILL be talked about IF it's worth talking about..ofcourse there are exceptions to the rule as with anything.
ReplyDeleteHey although I do have a older brother and sister I was one of those kids that had to learn about sex through their friends and the word of the street now it wasn't all bad made it through my teen yrs wit out getting pregnant but I wish I had sum real guidance bout it...my lil cousin is 13 yrs old and she know more about sex positions than me I just learn wtf teabaging, jumping frog, and riding cow girl is lol I'm 22 yrs old and she trying to school me but I do let her know about safe sex cuz that's just not being talked about enough wit these young kids...
ReplyDeleteTha King has lots of younger cousins. I tell them the real when it comes to sex. Not in terms of actual sex, but sexual health, what to look for, how to protect yourself. I hear kids on the train talking straight nonsense. They know every position like unique said, but they don't even the basics of sexual health. 1-4 blk people age 18-30 has an std. That's lack of knowledge.
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