There is a disagreement at my place of employment. To set the scene; I am the only male in an office of 8 females, basically it's an estrogen feast in this biotch. Within the last week two of these co-workers have received rather expensive gifts from their male "friends." Both co-workers graciously accepted the gifts, under the impression that there were no strings attached. I felt it was my civic duty to inform them otherwise. The conversation went something like this;
"You do know they wan't something in return right?"
"What?"
"These gifts aren't out of the kindness of their hearts. they want something."
"What do you mean?"
"They are expecting you to give up the ass in the very near future."
"No they don't! We're just friends."
"Riiiiiight make sure you shave your legs and what not for the next time you see him.....
This debate is hardly a new one. There are some men, foolish as they may be, that believe that by showering an otherwise uninterested female with expensive gifts and/or money, that the female will become attracted to you. This is the basis for what we now know as "tricking." Women are aware of this, and under the guise of friendship will string a witless fool along until his accounts are in the negative and his credit cards are maxed out. Of course this doesn't apply to all women, but I can say with confidence that 75% have done, are doing or are willing to do it if the opportunity presents itself.
Tricking causes many problems between the two sexes. From a Females perspective, if she has grown accustomed to dealing with tricks she will begin to believe that this is standard protocol. When a man comes along who's pimp hand is more sturdy, the woman becomes offended, thinking he views her as a "cheap f#ck." To the non-tricking male, a woman who expects her affection to be bought is a gold-digger, and we don't love them hoes.
To the tricking male, his sense of reality has become so distorted to the point where he cannot see signs of a gold-digger. So he writes the female off as "high maintenance" and continues to write those checks all the while thinking that every check that clears is another hurdles he has cleared on the way to her heart, or in her pants, whichever his intention.
Tricking is morally wrong people! A man should not be interested in women that are more into their bank acct than their personality, or lack thereof. Your not the richest dude in the world, so when another brotha comes up to your girl and his bank statement has one more zero, she'll skate. She's not looking for a partner, she's looking for a come-up. Only hoes look for come ups. As women you should realize your playing a game you can't win. If a man has to buy you, your no longer a person. Your an investment, and like cars and houses, pussy is a depreciating asset. Your losing monetary value. As soon as he's able he'll trade you in and upgrade to the shiny younger version.
