This topic was so clutch cause Tha King had nothing to talk about today. While at work Tha King came across this story; So I'm sure you all remember hearing about Steve Mcnair, the NFL player who was killed only July 4th by his girlfriend who then killed herself. It was a pretty tragic story, especailly because the man had two sons. Well apparently, McNair's teammate and fellow QB Vince Young has been filling in as Dad where ever possible. This week he surprised the boys by showing up at their school for "Bring your dad to school day."
Black men are always getting thrown under the bus for not being there for their children. Well here's a black man who is there for someone else's kids.
It takes a hell of a man to raise another man's kids. Personally, Tha King would have to do alot of soul searching if he were put in that situation. This is the reason Tha King has never dated anyone with children, but the reality is more and more woman are having kids and are single. So this is a situation that alot of dudes are gonna have to deal with. I was at my nephew's football game last weekend(background: my brother and my nephew's mother are no longer together.) His mother's boyfriend was there, just as excitied as if it were his child. Homeboy even skipped HIS nephew's football game to be at my nephews. No thats some shit right there.
Anyways, keeping it short today. For the ladies with kids, are some dudes turned off by the fact that your a mother? Dudes, do you date women with children?
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I think it should be more about who the women is not that she has a child.
ReplyDeleteIn these times, its hard to find a man/woman who doesnt have children. If you are really digging a person, and they have a kid, theres no reason why u should not pursue them. Would you want the tables reversed on you n say no woman should talk to a man who has a child. Things happen, relationship of 20 yrs go sour. I rather live in happiness with that special someone than live in misery with someone im incompatible with. Life is too short, u gotta live it to enjoy it. Too all the men who doesnt date woman because they have kids: Good luck cuz your ratio to finding one without any is shrinking by the day. Ur loss is another person gain.
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